Reframing: Day 2 of 100
You are not alone if you have ever been overwhelmed by your mind's unrelenting attention to minutia. For people with OCD, observing every little detail—every flaw, every possibility, every "what-if"—can be draining. But what if your meticulous nature goes beyond mere difficulty? Suppose it also serves as a present.
The Beauty in Things Others Ignorantly Miss
Some of the most amazing works of art, the most brilliant scientific breakthroughs, and the most poignant pieces of music exist since someone took the time to see what others missed. Your capacity to see very closely into the minutiae of life will help you to see beauty others would overlook.
You find trends whereby others perceive anarchy.
The little things have meaning for you.
You value nuances that enliven life.
Although it can be a road to greater appreciation, your mind's natural propensity to concentrate on the fine things can be taxing when it causes overanalysis. The same capacity for rumination drives also creativity, insight, and great awareness.
Change Your Viewpoint
Many times, OCD causes one to feel as though their mind is against them. Reframing, then, is choosing to view your strengths rather than merely your challenges.
Imagine if your ideas were proof of your capacity to see life more thoroughly rather than a trap. What if you let yourself focus on activities that provide happiness, meaning, and purpose rather than striving to totally calm your mind?
With Purpose Using Your Gift
You may teach your mind to perceive beauty instead of simply uncertainty, much as an artist sharpens his vision to discern light and shadow. Here are several approaches to engage this change:
Stop and appreciate; deliberately move to see a feature that inspires awe when you find yourself overly preoccupied with one that causes anxiety.
Create instead of control; apply your creative attention to detail in writing, painting, design, problem-solving, or engineering.
Trust that beauty exists; not everything has to be examined or corrected. Sometimes noticing and appreciating is plenty.
Daily Reminder
At Reframelets, we think about concrete reminders that help you perceive your path and yourself differently. Your bracelet is a signal to stop, change your viewpoint, and remember that your mind—even in its challenges—is able to see beauty others overlook. It is not just an adornment.
Let yourself thus today see the positive. The light peeping through the window. The laughing of a dear friend. The steady rhythm of your breathing. Your capacity for detail is not a weakness; rather, it's a portal to a more meaningful, deeper existence.